We all come in different SHAPES and SIZES.
What's right for one person may not be right for another.
There are things that are important to me, that you don't care about at all!
But I want for us to understand each other, and communicate well,
because we live together in the same world.
because we live together in the same world.
We are not the same person, so we will not always see things the same way.
I have my own Thoughts and my own Ideas,
that may or may not fit into your vision of who I should be.
By learning more about my own Personality, and about other Personality Types,
I can come to a better understanding of my strengths and weaknesses.
I can improve my interpersonal relationships, realign my expectations towards others,
and gain a better self-knowledge that will help me define and achieve goals.
and gain a better self-knowledge that will help me define and achieve goals.
I recently took a personality test, and I'm a ENFJ. If you don't know what that means, here are some things that may help.
EI: 7 out of 17 Extrovert(E) |-------------------------------------------------| Introvert(I) | 41% SN: 12 out of 17 Sensation(S) |-------------------------------------------------| iNtuition(N) | 70% TF: 12 out of 17 Thinking(T) |-------------------------------------------------| Feeling(F) | 70% JP: 8 out of 17 Judging(J) |-------------------------------------------------| Perceiving(P) | 47%
So generally I'm a extrovert, Intuition, feeling and perceiving person. It's okay if you don't know what it means, it's ok.
This may give you a clearer picture....
Taken from http://www.personalitypage.com,
The Giver
As an ENFJ, you're primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in primarily via your intuition.
ENFJs are people-focused individuals. They live in the world of people possibilities. More so than any other type, they have excellent people skills. They understand and care about people, and have a special talent for bringing out the best in others. ENFJ's main interest in life is giving love, support, and a good time to other people. They are focused on understanding, supporting, and encouraging others. They make things happen for people, and get their best personal satisfaction from this.
Because ENFJ's people skills are so extraordinary, they have the ability to make people do exactly what they want them to do. They get under people's skins and get the reactions that they are seeking. ENFJ's motives are usually unselfish, but ENFJs who have developed less than ideally have been known to use their power over people to manipulate them.
ENFJ's are so externally focused that it's especially important for them to spend time alone.
ENFJ's tend to be more reserved about exposing themselves than other extraverted types. Although they may have strongly-felt beliefs, they're likely to refrain from expressing them if doing so would interfere with bringing out the best in others. Because their strongest interest lies in being a catalyst of change in other people, they're likely to interact with others on their own level, in a chameleon-like manner, rather than as individuals.
People love ENFJs. They are fun to be with, and truly understand and love people. They are typically very straight-forward and honest. Usually ENFJs exude a lot of self-confidence, and have a great amount of ability to do many different things. They are generally bright, full of potential, energetic and fast-paced. They are usually good at anything which captures their interest.
ENFJs have a special gift with people, and are basically happy people when they can use that gift to help others. They get their best satisfaction from serving others. Their genuine interest in Humankind and their exceptional intuitive awareness of people makes them able to draw out even the most reserved individuals.
ENFJs have a strong need for close, intimate relationships, and will put forth a lot of effort in creating and maintaining these relationships. They're very loyal and trustworthy once involved in a relationship.
In general, ENFJs are charming, warm, gracious, creative and diverse individuals with richly developed insights into what makes other people tick. This special ability to see growth potential in others combined with a genuine drive to help people makes the ENFJ a truly valued individual. As giving and caring as the ENFJ is, they need to remember to value their own needs as well as the needs of others.
Well, that's me,
and I'm glad I'm me. Everyone has strength and weaknesses, so don't ever look down on yourself, because you are so very special. So to take the test, click here.
I hope you'll understand yourself a little better, and appreciate yourself because of who you are....
Logging off,
Yeoh
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